💥 What Is Pegging? Pegging Guide
Pegging refers to a sexual activity where a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates a man's anus. This type of role reversal can offer both partners a new, thrilling experience that explores power dynamics and physical pleasure—especially prostate stimulation for men, which can lead to intense orgasms.
Today, the term "pegging" generally refers to anal penetration using a strap on dildo, regardless of gender.
🔧 How to Prepare for Pegging
Before jumping into pegging, preparation is crucial for comfort, safety, and enjoyment. Here’s what to keep in mind:
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Mutual Consent
Always talk with your partner first and make sure there is enthusiastic consent from both sides. -
Hygiene
The receiving partner should shower beforehand. Using an anal douche is optional but not always necessary. -
Lubrication is Non-Negotiable
Use plenty of lube to avoid discomfort or tearing. Water-based lubricants are best for silicone toys. -
Start Small
Try using fingers or a small anal plug to warm up. It helps relax the anal muscles before using a strap on. -
Use a Condom on the Dildo
Makes cleanup easier and adds an extra layer of hygiene.
🛠️ Choosing the Right Equipment
🎽 Strap-On Harness
Choose between:
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Panty-style harnesses (more comfortable)
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BDSM-style harnesses (better for control)
Select based on comfort and the kind of play you want.
🍆 Dildo
Start with a small dildo—especially if it's your first time. Once you're more experienced, you can try larger ones or prostate-specific designs with a curved tip.
💧 Lubricants
Types:
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Water-based (best for beginners and silicone toys)
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Silicone-based (longer-lasting but not safe with silicone toys)
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Oil-based (not condom-safe, can stain)
🔋 Vibrators
Adding a vibrator during pegging brings extra stimulation. You can consider using it with your partner — such as bullet vibrators or clit vibrators.
If you're using a strap-on, you can thrust manually or let your partner take control. Remember, even if you’re using your hand, it still counts as pegging.
🧠 Overcoming Shame: It’s About Pleasure, Not Labels
Some men may hesitate due to outdated ideas that associate anal play with being “less masculine” or “gay.” In reality, pegging is about trust, exploration, and pleasure—not labels. Enjoying prostate stimulation doesn’t define your sexual orientation.
Guide to Pegging: Tips for Strap-on Dildo Use
Your basic pegging starter kit typically includes: a harness, a dildo, and plenty of lube. Harnesses come in lingerie or bondage styles — both serve the same purpose, so choose whichever is more comfortable (and sexy) for you.
🗣️ Communication & Consent: The Foundation
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Establish safe words (Red, Yellow, Green).
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Talk about boundaries and check in regularly.
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Use humor, patience, and encouragement to make the experience feel natural.
🔥 Advanced Pegging Ideas
Once you’ve tried basic pegging, consider:
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Double penetration dildo (one end for the giver’s vagina, one for the receiver’s anus)
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BDSM elements like blindfolds, wrist restraints, and dirty talk
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Role play scenarios
Try mixing in other sex toys, edging, or teasing to make the experience more intense.
🧽 Hygiene & Toy Care
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Clean all toys before and after use with warm water and toy cleaner.
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Store them in dust-proof bags.
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Use condoms on dildos shared between partners.
🛏️ Pegging Positions to Try
1. Doggy Style
Classic and effective. Great for control and spanking.
2. Butterfly Position
Receiver lies on their back with legs raised. Easy eye contact and intimacy.
3. Reverse Cowgirl
Let the receiver ride the dildo while the giver relaxes or directs pace.
Tip: Lay down a waterproof sheet and dim the lights for a sexier ambiance.
No matter which position you try, remember to enjoy yourselves. Clean your toys thoroughly before and after, and always communicate clearly and honestly.
Start slow. The speed and intensity should match the receiver's comfort level. Communication is crucial.
You can also use silk or latex sheets to add to the experience. Consider restraining the wrists for a stronger sense of dominance and enjoyment.
Some people enjoy gentle circular motions around the prostate during penetration — try moving your hips in different ways and listen to your partner’s needs.
Why Does My Partner Want to Be Pegged?
❓ Common Questions About Pegging
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“Does pegging mean my boyfriend is gay?”
→ No. Enjoying anal stimulation doesn’t define one’s sexuality. -
“Will it hurt?”
→ Not if you use lube, go slow, and communicate. -
“Is it normal to be curious about this?”
→ Yes! Pegging is increasingly popular and widely enjoyed by all genders.
👥 Real Experiences
Emily: “I thought I was only into women, but my first pegging experience with a man was surprisingly empowering!”
Lola: “It flipped our roles in a fun way. It made me feel in control, and he loved it.”
Evelyn: “We did a lot of research before trying pegging. It took communication and patience, but it was so worth it.”
❤️ Health Benefits of Pegging
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Boosts prostate health through stimulation
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Encourages emotional intimacy and trust
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Allows exploration of power exchange dynamics
🛒 Where to Buy Pegging Gear
For beginners and pros alike, sextoysstore.net offers:
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Prostate dildos
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Lubricants
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Free gifts with orders over $49 (including small beginner plugs!)
🎯 Final Thoughts
Pegging is a fun, powerful, and deeply personal way to explore pleasure, intimacy, and play. Take your time, communicate clearly, and always prioritize safety and comfort.
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